Dear Avril, My Daughter.

To my Daughter Avril,

I’m sure you’ll grow up hearing my advice and get sick of it, but when you’re mad at me, come to this letter so you can see where I’m coming from.

When you were born my world changed. I had no idea it was possible to love someone—something as much as I love you. I want the best for you. I want you to be happy. I’ve had a happy life but I want you to be even happier.

Go for your dreams. Really, dream as big as you can and go for it. You can do anything; But while you’re dreaming big, also be sure to live in the here and now. Enjoy the present because before you know it, it’ll be the past. The worst feeling is wishing you had done something you didn’t do.

Know that goals can change, and that’s ok. You aren’t a failure for changing your mind. You’re brave for going for something new.

Don’t keep wishing for what others have. You’ll never have enough if you keep comparing yourself to others. Learn to be happy with what you have, and remember life is a journey, not a competition. Don’t waste the journey trying to outdo others.

Don’t waste time trying to please everyone. You can’t. Some people just won’t come around. Some people won’t like you just because of the way you look. It’s not right, but know that you’re better than that. Try to see the good in them still.

If there’s one word you should live by, let it be “love.” Love those who hate you, and those who love you back. Your compassion will shine through, and help others who need that light of positivity.




I’m sure once you’re a teenager there will be things we disagree on. Maybe your friends will be doing something you think isn’t a very big deal and I will think it is a VERY big deal. I just want you to know that I’d never do anything to intentionally hurt you. You’ll have to make your own mistakes, and I can’t make you learn from mine, but I will try to guide you in the right direction. When you mess up though, (we all do) never be afraid to call me. I will am here for you. Always.

When you are much much older and fall in love, know that I don’t care what your husband looks like. I care about how he treats you. And the person who earns your heart should love you for your beauty inside.

Someday, when you have children of your own you’ll know how much I love you, and you’ll understand where I’m coming from.

I send these words from my heart to yours, and hope you’ll keep them close. You’ve changed my life. I love you.

Love,

Dad.